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For men who build empires but can't sit still in their own bodies.

The Integrated Man

Coaching for men who are successful on paper but feel disconnected from purpose, stuck in patterns, and building to prove themselves instead of building what's aligned.
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Is this you?

You've achieved a lot — but something still feels off.
You oscillate between ambition and burnout.
Relationships feel like a puzzle you can't solve.
"I should be happier than I am."
You're building to prove yourself, not because it's aligned.

What we work on

Identity

Stop performing. Start being.

Relationships

Face your avoidant patterns instead of running.

Purpose

Find THE thing, not 30 things.

Body

Nervous system regulation, sitting with discomfort, physical practice.

Why Ryan

→ Led meditations at Berkeley Student Co-op
→ Founded men's groups at Mount Madonna Center
→ TMF (The ManKind Project) — deep men's work, anger shrine, grief ceremonies
→ 5+ months circling practice at The Men's Circle
→ Vipassana, meditation retreats, psychedelic exploration
→ Michael Taft 1:1 mentorship
→ High school dropout → UC Berkeley → 7 years at Equinix → property investor ($147K annual rental income)
→ Built 30+ projects — knows the gap between vision and execution intimately
→ Mixed identity (Irish-American + Venezuelan) — understands performing identity vs. authentic self

Pricing

Discovery Call

Free

25 minutes
1:1 Session

$150

per hour
Monthly Package

$500/mo

4 sessions

Ready?

25 minutes. No pitch. Just a real conversation about where you are and whether this is the right fit.
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